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清华附小校长窦桂梅:老师最不希望家长做的5件事

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  来源:微言教育(ID:jybxwb)、窦桂梅个人博客

东莞配资公司   ZUOWEIYIGEPUTONGDELAOSHI,WOCENGJINGYOU16NIANDEBANZHURENGONGZUOJINGYAN。SUIRANXIANZAIWODANGLEXIAOZHANG,DANSHIWOBINGMEIYOULIKAIWOREAIDEJIANGTAI。GENGDUOSHIHOUWOHAISHIHUOYUEZAIKETANGZHONG,WEILEWOKEAIDEXUESHENGMENZAIJINXINGZHEBUDUANDIYANJIU。  

东莞配资公司   ZAIYANJIUDEGUOCHENGZHONG,WOYUELAIYUEFAXIANJIAOYUDEWENTITAIDUOLE。JINTIANWOXIANGTANTANJIAXIAOZHIJIAN,JIAZHANGBUGAIZUOSHENME,YIJIXUEXIAOJIANYIJIAZHANGMENZUOSHENME,WOXIANGYUDAJIAFENXIANGYIXIAJIGEGUSHI。

东莞配资公司   GUSHI1:JIAZHANGWUQU——BAOBAN

  HAIJIHAIZIYIGEMEIHAODETONGNIAN

东莞配资公司   DIYIGEGUSHIHAISHIMANYOUYISIDE。YIWEILAOSHIZAITINGMEISHUKESHIHOUFAXIANYIGEXIAONANHAIBINGMEIYOUZAIHUAHUAER,ERSHIZAIXIEZUOYE。ZHEIWEILAOSHIMASHANGWENTA:“NIZENMEBUHUAHUANI?ZUOYEDENGDAOHUIJIAZAIXIEBUXINGMA?”

  ZHEIGELIUNIANJIDEXUESHENGSHUO:“WOHUIJIA2TIAN,WOMAMAJIWOBAOLE3GEBAN。YIGESHIAOSHU,YIGESHIZUOWEN,HAIYOUYIGESHIDANHUANGGUAN。”

东莞配资公司   LAOSHIYOUWEN:“NEINIBUSHIHAIYOUBANTIANSHIJIANMA?”DAJIACAICAITASHIZENMEHUIDADE?TASHUO:“ZHEIDEYOUWOMAMAJUEDING。”

  HAIZIMENZAIZHOUMODAODIZUOLESHENMESHIQING,YOUMEIYOUTAZIJIZUIXIANGZUODESHIQING?ERZHEIYANGDEZHOUMOJIESHUHOU,WOMENZAIKANKANZHOUYIHAIZIMENDEZHUANGTAI,DABUFENDOUDAIZHEMANLIANDEPIBEIYUJUANDAIKAISHIXINYIZHOUDEXIAOYUANSHENGHUO。

  NANDAOZHEIDOUSHIXUEXIAODANFANGMIANJIDEYALIMA?SUOYICONGZHEIGEYIYISHANGSHUO,JIAZHANGDAODIGAIZENMEANPAIHAIZIMENDEZHOUMOSHIGUANGNI?

  GUSHI2:JIAZHANGWUQU——QIANGQIU

  QINGZUNZHONGHAIZIDEXINGQUHEXUANZE

  我要说的第二个故事与戏剧有关。我们在主题教学方面一直在不断尝试将各种优势资源进行整合,由此也产生了很多优秀的“1+X”课程。

  QIZHONG,“1+X”KECHENGDEYIGECHUANTONGJIUSHIMEINIANYICIDEXIJUZHANYAN,JIAZHANGKEANZHAOGERENYIYUANZIXINGXUANZESHIFOUCANYU。

  YOUZHEIYANGYIWEIMANGLIUDEBABA,BAIMANGZHIZHONGHAOBURONGYILAIDAOLEXUEXIAO,KESHIPAILIANJINXINGDAOYIBANDESHIHOUTIQIANTUICHANGLE。JIUQIYUANYIN,SHITADEHAIZIYANLEYIKUAIYIDONGBUDONGSHENZHILIANYIJUTAICIDOUMEIYOUDEDASHITOU。

  SHIHOU,TAJILAOSHIFALEYIGEDUANXIN,DUANXINDENEIRONGSHIPINGSHENMERANGWODEHAIZIBANYANDASHITOU?LAOSHIHUIFUTASHUO:“ZHEISHININHAIZIZIJIXUANZEDE。”

  TINGDAOZHEIGEDAAN,TATURANJIANYOUYIDIANHUANHE。DANSHIRENGRANHELAOSHIGOUTONG:“SUIRANSHIZIJIXUANZEDE,DANSHINANDAOWODEHAIZIJIUZHISHIHEZUOYIKUAILIANJUTAICIDOUMEIYOUDEDASHITOUMA?NANDAOBUNENGZUOBIEDEMA?LAOSHININBUNENGJITADUODIANTAICI,BUNENGBANYANZHUJIAO,NENGBUNENGBANYANPEIJIAO?”

东莞配资公司   LAOSHITINGWANHOUXINQINGFEICHANGFUZA。NANDAOXUANZEYIKUAIANJINGDESHITOU,ZAIYIPANGMOMODIGUANCHABIERENYANCHU,FENXIANGBIERENDEJINGCAIBUSHIYIJIANZHIDECHENGDAODESHIQINGMA?NANDAOJIANZHIJIUBUKEYISHIYIGENANHAIDEAIHAOMA?

东莞配资公司   GUSHI3:JIAZHANGWUQU——HUSHI

  YOUSHENMESHIQINGBIHAIZIDECHENGZHANGHAIZHONGYAO?

  DISANGEGUSHIQIYUANYUYISHOUSHI。

  SHISHIZHEIYANGXIEDE:

东莞配资公司   MEICI,TINGDAONIXIABANHUIJIADEJIAOBU,

  WODEXINJIUXIANGHAOBURONGYIWANCHENGLEYIFUPINTU。

东莞配资公司   BABA,WOMENZHEIGEJIASHIYIKUAIPINTUYEBUNENGSHAODE。

  DIYICIDUZHEISHOUSHIDESHIHOUWOTEBIEGANDONG,TURANXIANGQILEWOJIAODEYIGEHAIZI。ZHEIGEHAIZIDEBABAZONGSHIBUHUIJIA,YUSHIWOLIULEYIGEZUOYE,YAOQIUMEIGEHAIZIHUIJIAHOUDOUYAOLANGDUJIBABAMAMATING。

  ERDUIYUZHEIGEHAIZI,WOTEYIYAOQIUTAYAOJITABABALANGDU3BIAN,RANGBABAXIECHUTINGHOUGAN。

  KESHIZUOYEBUZHIXIAQUYIJINGYIGELIBAILE,ZHEIGEBABAMEIYOUYISIFANYING,LIANGGELIBAIHAISHIMEIYOURENHEFANYING。WOFADUANXINGENTASHUO:“HAIZIJININDEZUOYE,MAFANQINGNINXIEDIANDUHOUGAN,BAITUOLE。”

  BABASHUO:“WOZHIDAONIYAOWOXIEXINSHISHENMEYISI。KESHINIZENMEBUWENWENWOERZI,KANKANWOERZIXIANZAIDEBIAOXIANBUJIUXINGLE?”WOSHUO:“WOMINGBAILE。NINNENGZHEIYANGSHUOMINGNIDUDONGLENEISHOUSHI,LIJIELEWOBUZHIZHEIXIANGZUOYEDEMUDEYUYIYI。”

  XIANZAIHUIXIANGQIZHEIGEGUSHI,WOHAISHINENGGOUSHENKEDIGANSHOUDAONEISHIHOUDEJIAZHANGHAISHIYOUZHEIYANGDEJIAOYUMINGANDUDE。

东莞配资公司   XIANZAIDEJIAZHANGZHENDEBURONGYIA,TAMENDOUZAIMANGSHENMENI?YOUSHENMESHIQINGBIHAIZIDECHENGZHANGHAIZHONGYAONI?

  故事4:家长误区——替代
东莞配资公司   给予老师一些关怀与体谅

东莞配资公司   WOYAOJIANGDEDISIGEGUSHIHENIANQINGJIAOSHIYOUGUAN。WOMENXUEXIAOYOUYIWEIBIJIAONIANQINGDELAOSHI,JIANGSHOUYINIANJIKECHENG,HAIZIGANGSHANGXUE,JIAZHANGMENDOUXIANGDANGJINSHEN,YOUCICHANSHENGDEWENTIXUQIUTEBIEDUO。YEZHENGSHIYINWEIZHEIYANG,ZHEIWEINIANQINGLAOSHIYUDAOLEXIAMIANDEQINGKUANG。JIAZHANGMENCHANGCHANGZAOSHANG8DIANJIUJILAOSHIDADIANHUA,TICHUYIXIETESHUYAOQIU。

东莞配资公司   QIZHONGYIGEYAOQIU,JIUSHIYAOLAOSHIBASUOYOUHAIZIDEQINGKUANGDOUGENGEZIDEJIAZHANGXUSHUYIBIAN。YINWEILAOSHIBAITIANBUNENGDADIANHUA,SUOYITAZHINENGZAIWANSHANGYUGEWEIJIAZHANGGOUTONG,MEICIYIDAQILAIJIUYAODAGEYIXIAOSHIZUOYOU。CULVESUANXIALAI,ZHEIWEILAOSHIDEGONGZUOLIANGSHIDUOSHAONI?ZHISHAOYAODASISHIXIAOSHIDEDIANHUA。

东莞配资公司   DAJIANENGBUNENGJIYULAOSHIYIXIEGUANHUAIYUTILIANG?ZHEINANDAOBUSHIJIAOYUDEKUNHUOMA?NANDAOJIAOYUJINJINSHILAOSHIDEZERENMA?JIAZHANGNANDAOKEYIJIANGSUOYOUDEZERENDOUZHUANJIADAOLAOSHISHENSHANGMA?

  WORENWEIZHEIXIEDOUYINGGAIYINQIWOMENSUOYOURENDEFANSI。

  故事5:家长误区——溺爱
   爱的误区,让孩子失去了自我

东莞配资公司   XIAMIANWOYAOJIANGDEZUIHOUYIGEGUSHIYEXUYOUDIANJIDUAN,DANSHIQUESHIFASHENGGUO。ZHEIGEHAIZIMEITIANZAOSHANGSHIBULAISHANGXUEDE,YINWEITAYAOSHUIDAOZIRANXING。

  ZIRANXINGDEGAINIANSHISHENMENI?JIAZHANGJICHUDEDAANSHIBADIANBANDAOJIUDIANBANZHIJIAN。KESHIXUEXIAODESHIJIANANPAISHIZAOSHANGBADIANZHENGSHISHANGKE。

东莞配资公司   WUNAIZHIXIA,LAOSHIZHIDEHEJIAZHANGZUOXIALAITANYITAN。SHEICENGXIANG,JIAZHANGDETAIDUYEHENMINGQUE:ZHIQIANDECHENSONGBUHUICANJIA,RANGHAIZISHUIJUESHIJIAZHANGDEQUANLI,DANSHIRUGUOHAIZILUOKEZESHILAOSHIDECUOWU。TANHUABINGMEIYOUQIDAOZUOYONG,ZHEIYANGDEQINGKUANGYIZHIYANXULEYIGEXUEQI。

  ZAIZHEIZHONGJIAN,ZHEIGEXIAOPENGYOUHAICENGJINGYUDAOGUOZHEIYANGYIJIANSHIQING。ZAIWOMENDEQUWEIYUNDONGHUISHANG,SHANGCHANGYIQIANJIAZHANGNAZHESHUIPING,RANGTAHEKOUSHUIZAIQU。HAIZIYINWEIPADANWUBANLIDEBISAICHENGJI,BINGBUXIANGZHEIYANGZUO。ZAIJIAZHANGZAISANDIYAOQIUXIA,HAIZIWUZHUDIKULE。YINWEITABUZHIDAOGAIWANGQIANPAO,HAISHITINGJIAZHANGDEHUAHESHUI。

  YISHANGJIUSHIWOHEDAJIAFENXIANGFASHENGZAIWOMENSHENBIANDEWUGEJIAOYUXIAOGUSHI。YEXU,ZHEIWUGEGUSHIBUNENGQUANMIANDIDAIBIAOMUQIANJIAOYUCHUXIANDEWENTI,CONGJIAOYUXUESHANGJIANGKENENGYEBUYIDINGDUI。DANSHIZHISHAOKEYIFANYINGCHUYIXIEWENTIYUKUNHUO。

  DADUOSHUDEJIAZHANGDOUWANGZICHENGLONGWANGNVCHENGFENGDE,DOUZHIDAOYAOPEIHEXUEXIAO,HUOZHESHUOHEXUEXIAOYIQILAIZUO。DANGRANWANQUANPEIHEYEBUYIDINGJUEDUIDEZHENGQUE。

  CONGZHEIGEYIYISHANGLAIJIANG,JIAZHANGDAODIGAIZENMEBAN?SHIYIWEIDITUIXIEZEREN、FANGRENBUGUANHAISHIMANGMUGENCONG?

  WOXIANGXIN,ZHEIXIEDOUSHIZHIDEJINYIBUSHENSIDE。






  



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